Guides & tools
Step-by-step guides to the practical corners of the process.
Interactive tools
Fill in, compare, keep — everything stays in your browser.
The Compass — a pre-journey questionnaire
Alone or as a couple (each separately): what matters to you in a donor, surrogate and clinic — and a document showing where you are aligned and where a conversation is waiting.
Open the toolAgency comparison — interactive tool
Ready questions for your first calls, an impression mark per topic, and a comparison table across agencies. Saved in your browser.
Open the toolClinic call kit — interactive tool
Questions for IVF clinic intro calls — donor pool, embryos and money — plus a database self-tour and a comparison table. Saved in your browser.
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Utah online wedding
Want to marry and register in the US but can't travel? Utah lets you do it entirely online. A full walkthrough — licence, video ceremony and apostille.
Open the guideNew York wedding
Getting married in New York? The whole process step by step — the Project Cupid application, the waiting period, the ceremony, and the extended certificate for apostille.
Open the guideQuestions for a surrogacy agency
First call with an agency? Every question worth asking — screening, costs, insurance and the legal side — so you arrive prepared.
Open the guideSurrogate screening — what to verify
What real screening includes — medical, psychological, financial — and how to check the agency actually did it.
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